Heartbreak

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A friend of mine was recently hit with some really bad news. Her breast cancer metastasized. She blogs and she uses social media like most of us. So I saw her post on Instagram, a photo of a doctor’s whiteboard drawing of internal organs. I didn’t yet feel too deep a sense of dread. Even though she had been battling breast cancer, she was in remission. Her recent posts had been upbeat, forward looking. Things were finally looking up for her.

Then I clicked the link and read her news.

I finally was able to look at Instagram again tonight, almost a week later. I may never look at it the same again. How can I look at all these posts of trips and scenery and babies born? How can I post anything there? It feels like everything is frivolous, just filling the air with emptiness. It’s not important. Every feed on Instagram should have stopped. Hers should be the last one. Everyone who looks from now on should only see her doctor’s handiwork and a link to her devastating diagnosis. How can we feel lighthearted? Go about our business?

And yet every day people get earth-shattering news, just like she did. Will stopping everything honor them and their struggle? If they can still retain a spark of optimism and gratitude right through the midst of heartbreak, shouldn’t we?

So this is my prayer for her; may her hope be a secure anchor, may our God grant her strength, and may she never doubt she is loved!

To read her blog go to http://www.livelyontherocks.com.

Post script: To my dear friend: Thank you for letting me blog about your experiences. Ever since we met each other via letter at 11 years old, writing  has been our bond! Writing this helped me process and cope, as writing your story in your blog has helped you. You are facing this challenge with fortitude and style. And you are not alone! I’m so glad to have you as a friend!

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Author: standupandlivelife

I'm a mom blogger and freelance writer. I love to live my life to the full and write about it in the process. I hope you are inspired by what inspires me!

5 thoughts on “Heartbreak”

  1. I am so sorry to hear about your friend. I felt the same way about social media after hearing of the news of our dear sister being shot in Vegas. These tragedies really put things in perspective. The longing for the new system is great!

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  2. Thank you. As her sister, I too felt like everything should stop
    And for a little bit, it did for me. But I wasn’t doing anything for her, for me, for our family. Now, I have what I am sure us a better plan. I leave in a week.to spendd 2 weeks with her doing whatever I can to make this easier.

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